People I work with genuinely want to communicate well. They don't want to hurt other people's feelings or make them angry, but many find themselves stuck in a frustrating pattern, unsure how to break free.
Effective communication meaning is the process of exchanging thoughts, feelings, and information in a way that promotes understanding, respect, and connection between people.
Dr. John Gottman agrees. He notes that we often get into unhelpful communication cycles and we simply don't know how to get unstuck.
The classic book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, emphasizes how we all long to communicate more effectively but we often stumble due to insecurity or misunderstandings.
If these scenarios sound familiar, you're not alone!
Here are some simple ways to begin to uplevel effective communication characteristics in your relationships:
* Have a Heart-to-Heart When Things Are Calm. When both of you are feeling relaxed, ask, "What’s one thing I could do to better communicate with you?" This question shows you care and are willing to work on improving yourself in this area. It’s amazing how much this simple question can open up a meaningful conversation.
* Put It Into Practice. Once you've heard the request, make a genuine effort to practice what they’ve suggested. Every so often, check in and ask, “Do you feel we're connecting better? Is there anything I can adjust?” This shows you’re adaptable and committed to making things the best they can be.
* Adjust. Remember, good communication takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself and the other person. Keep tweaking your approach based on their feedback and don't give up. Over time, small adjustments can lead to big improvements.
If you’re finding these steps aren’t quite enough, here are some next steps
1. Enroll in RECONNECT: A Self-Paced Course to Boost Communication Skills. This self-paced course offers practical tools and strategies for effective communication relationships so that you can have:
Clear Communication: Techniques to help you express yourself effectively.
Less Conflict: Strategies to manage and resolve disagreements.
A Stronger Bond: Ways to build deeper, more meaningful connections.
Calm Interactions: Tips to keep your cool during tough conversations.
Real-Life Tools: Practical insights you can use immediately.
2. Schedule a complimentary consultation for individual coaching or couples coaching. Sometimes, a little guidance can make all the difference.
3. Like what you see, but aren’t ready for a course or coaching, sign up to receive my succinct emails with communication tips and offers!
Remember, wanting to communicate well is a huge first step. With the right tools and a bit of practice, you can break free from old patterns and build a stronger, more connected relationship. You've got this and I'm here to help when you need me!
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